Name:Latisha Location: United States Gender:Female
Interests:Fashion, clothing, Parties,Music, people... Movies (B and C movies I love them and anything by John Waters) I basically like to have fun I can club and I can kick back and relax, i love people that are into being them and don't give a damn about what people may think. Expertise:I am and expert at being me
I have been told so many times that i am over exaggerative and that i must be fake because I'm so loud and chipper about 80% of the time. No, I am just happpy with me and my life yes Happpy! Triple "P" and an exclamation mark! The hardest thing about life is living. I have leaned that I do not need to stress everyday and take every little thing to heart. I have also learned not to hold on to things. If something pisses me off be sure that you will hear about it right away- just as you'll hear about why I'm very happy right away. Bottom line, I am just me. I have not changed and I probably never will. I have my "attitude" and my ways of dealing with things and like i always say "you can get on the bus or wait on the side of the road if you don't wanna go my way" meaning: I am the way I am and I am not changing. I would ask you too... so don't expect me too. I think people try to play so many roles so much that they get caught up in trying to impress others. I also think people are way to into what others are doing. we are such a "in your shit society" these days, reality shows and all up in everyones business and everyones all up in our personal business and it gets to the point where you're living your life for others... I put that down a while ago. I just cant Perform daily. maybe if i was getting paid but...nah. lol Anyways thats enough of me ranting. be well people. Please comment. xoxo- peace and blessing - L
To my and gay/lesbian friends out there I totally love you! Ok so I know some people aren’t going to agree with me and may even want to post some long-ass bible scripture filled response but these are my feelings and views so respect them as I do yours even if you don’t agree. k? Thanks
Anyways. I just read a post (that happened to be about two of my friends I wont say their names even though I know they’re on Xanga/Facebook) about how “the gay community should conduct themselves in a better manner as not to offend others around them" this was said after apparently a fight occurred when a elderly man saw two girls kissing while waiting for the bus. He proceeded to call them names and yell at them and others got involved... it was a whole gay bashing hate filled frikkin mess. And this bloggers response was that if "the gays don’t like it then they shouldn’t be gay in public. They should keep what they do in private." What they do? Are you frikkin kidding me? (ok, I’m all for keeping things chill and conservative with the PDA for everybody in the sense of like… don’t go all out up against a street lamp in broad daylight but really if that’s what you like and I doesn’t get you arrested… GFI)My hunny and I kiss in public, hold hands and occasionally grab each others booty- small displays ofPDA and that’s fine, but 2 girls getting their smooch on while waiting for public transpo isn’t? They’re supposed to just keep it all to themselves and stay in the closet? (or under the bus as the elderly man allegedly suggested that they do) well, maybe you should mind your business. Do you keep it to yourself when you and your man are all in love or when you and your baby's mama/daddy have a fight? Or when you have a fancy night at your husbands/wife’s cooperate dinner? Hell no! You be all up on Facebook posting pictures of yall hand in hand or posting about how you can’t stand him today- but when a gay couple are kissing at the bus stop its a damn problem? Shut the hell up and keep yours to yourself if that's how you feel about it.
Why is it that some people feel that It’s okay for you to be YOU but when someone is unlike you its not okay and you need to judge them for it as if they don’t have the right to be who they are? And I am so sick of people that are full of crap, I have heard everything from the nasty tickle-dick- threesome- fantasy-wankerssaying "aw ya, if its two girls it's hot but if its two guys its gross- thats gay- dude." to the over zealous bible thumpers who claim that everybody’s going to hell. Really? You can make that call? When did you become God?Nobody gave me frikkin memo about how when you go to church you automatically have the right to judge people- last I checked only God dictates who gets into heaven and I'm not so sure we'll be seeing you there Mr./Mrs. Church going Bible Thumper! I’m sorry for the rant but it just makes me sick when people say crap like " just keep it to yourself" that’s like saying... "hey, be completely unlike yourself so that I am more comfortable around you." Or "Jane go ahead and marry Bob because it will make me more comfortable/happy with you even though I know you really love Suzie” "Please, be miserable and unhappy so that I can feel better about myself." Really? Really.
We had some crazy worried times these last few months and i swear i was handling things and trying my best not to stress but you know.... i really had the stress in the background. i don't know how to really get rid of that because a part of me always feels like you have to worry about it you have to have it in your mind that things may not turn out well at all. but up front its like, ok well i really cant do anything other than what i am already doing so its gonna work the way its gonna work. It usually always works out for the best but still... i have the little bit of stress in the background you know? oh well.
I recently have been noticing the style trends among the different age groups. They come with different styles of dress and surround the same types of culture such as style of dress and music and the REFUSAL to "categorize” or "Label" themselves as anything. et, i keep seeing it as different versions of the same thing. I just had this odd conversation with a young girl/woman of 19 who swore she was not a "Hipster" and she went on about how she doesn't label herself and she likes what she likes and goes with it. Mind you she made this same argument before she transitioned from being a “Scene Kid”. She dropped the big choppy hair and Granamal kiddie shirts and bright skinny jeans for, vintage tops, laid down hair, less eye liner and dark blue skinny jeans... But aren't they all the same?
Aren’t hipsters toned down/reformed scene kids? They all dress a certain way and do their hair the same and listen to the same music and NEVERRRRR call themselves what they obviously are? goodbye Hot Topic hello American Apparel? they swapped the bows and barrettes for headbands and hats? no more doodling on your Vans and spray paint your high tops?
people are ridiculous! its like, really? are you that serious about being in the damn store that you feel the need to act a fool? i swear if one more of them crazy ass women with 6 kids with that they had no control over and they hot mess of a ghetto outfit bumped into me on more time... i was really going to have to get a lawyer. I admit that I was a little tired today and i was trying to stay hard on my grocery list and be focused but you can only deal with so much. from they loud children running around the store to the person behind me in line feeling they really needed to be so close that their breath was on me and they were inhaling my exhale.... all just get up to the checker that smashes the bread and takes my money with an attitude. today must have not been the day to shop. lol but its okay i totally made it through and got all my food put up and am able to rest and relax and catch some of the NCIS marathon... yay but i shoulda went to Target.
